by Melissa Sharp
“And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed.” Matthew 26:37
“Running is more than a sport—it’s a community of people at all stages of their journey. I’m so grateful for the friends I’ve made along the way. Some days, it’s more about the community than the run. Melissa and Larry are amazing people whom I love having in my circle.”
Those were the words a dear friend posted after a Saturday morning run that included free donuts, a HOKA Test Drive event, and some awesome fellowship. Though we originally met through running, she and I truly bonded over our shared love for Jesus—a love that has grown stronger over the years. While I’m blessed to run with many great people, this precious friend is part of something deeper—she’s in my inner circle.
A Christian “inner circle” is more than close companionship—it’s a bond rooted in Christ, a relationship strengthened by shared faith and accountability. These are the people who walk beside you in both your victories and valleys. They encourage you when you’re weak, challenge you when you stray, and love you like family. That’s why your inner circle must be chosen wisely.
Jesus Himself modeled this.
“Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to the disciples, ‘Sit here while I go and pray over there.’ And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed. Then He said to them, ‘My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.’” Matthew 26:36–38
In His darkest hour, Jesus didn’t call the multitudes. He didn’t even bring all twelve disciples. He brought three: Peter, James, and John—His inner circle. They were with Him during the Transfiguration, at the raising of Jairus’s daughter, and now in Gethsemane. We don’t know exactly why Jesus chose Peter, James, and John, but we know that the trio witnessed Jesus’ greatest moments of glory and His darkest trials as well. In the end, they were known for their unwavering love and faithfulness to the Savior.
These weren’t casual companions; they were witnesses and co-laborers in both His glory and His grief.
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Proverbs 17:17
Friend, who is in your inner circle? Are they people who love Jesus, who will lift you up in prayer, who will speak truth when it’s hard to hear, and who will walk with you through fire if needed? True friends are rare and precious. And in the same way, you must also be that kind of friend for others. We need to BE the person who does not corrupt those around us.
“Do not be deceived: ‘Evil company corrupts good habits.’” 1 Corinthians 15:33
This verse is not just a warning—it’s God’s wisdom. We may have many acquaintances, coworkers, or even church friends, but the people closest to our heart—those in our inner circle—must be those who push us closer to Jesus, not pull us away.
Choose friends wisely. Love deeply. And above all, be the kind of friend your inner circle counts on both on the mountains and in the valleys.
Reflection Thought
Who is in your inner circle and—are they drawing you closer to Jesus or farther away?
Prayer
Heavenly Father, Thank You for showing us the power and purpose of godly friendships. Help us to choose our inner circle wisely—surrounding ourselves with those who love You and live for You. And Lord, help us to be faithful friends in return, encouraging others to grow in their walk with You. Thank You for the gift of true fellowship that reflects Your love. In Jesus’ precious name, Amen.
Melissa Sharp is an ultra runner and running coach who has completed more than 100 marathons and ultra marathons. Melissa has learned how to keep running the race of life for the glory of Christ even though she endured decades of domestic abuse. Melissa is a survivor. Through her daily blog thejoyfilledrunner she inspires others to live in the strength of Christ.
